Grandma's Visit

My mother and I are very close ...
So when Tyler didn't take to "Grandma Sadie" right away...I felt bad. Why couldn't he see what I saw in her?

Well, unfortunately, Tyler doesn't get to visit with my mother as often as he gets to visit his grandparents in Omaha...and doesn't really know what to think of this lady who shows up every now and - and tries to kiss him....

Until now.

My mother came to Lincoln recently to watch Tyler while Todd and I were at work. And based on their history, I was a little worried.

But things were much different this time.

He played with her. They sang and sang...and sang.
And when she sat down to eat - he went right to her plate and let her feed him. At reading time, he took the book I was reading to him and handed it to her..and then sat on her lap for a story. And when I left for work the first day - he waved bye to me without shedding a tear...or even looking back.

I can't tell you how good that made me feel!

I know how important grandparents are.
And they have so much to offer their grandchildren..if they just get a chance.

Even though she didn't do things exactly the way mommy and daddy did them..Tyler didn't mind, and I think he appreciated some of the changes.

And...after 18 months, I was just glad to see grandma and grandson finally develop a bond.

What role do your parents play in your child's life?
If you're a grandparent - I want to hear from you, too.

Thanks for sharing.