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Mom to Mom with Serese Cole, June 23 Save Email Print
Lincoln, Neb.
Posted: 11:40 AM Jun 23, 2008
Last Updated: 11:56 AM Jun 23, 2008
Reporter: Serese Cole
Email Address: serese.cole@kolnkgin.com

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Baby Weight…

It's been six weeks since Jordan was born -- and the baby weight seems like it's here to stay!

So last week I put it in high gear. I started my two-a-day walks with the kids in the stroller (that's an extra 40 pounds) and my neighbor walks with me in the evening to help keep the pace up. I feel healthier and better about myself, especially after my last doctor's visit. I am now back at my pre-baby weigh -- but that stubborn little "baby" pouch refuses to budge. My doctor says after two kids some mothers never lose it -- yikes!

I haven't tried to fit into any of my work clothes yet in hopes that a week of serious abdominal work will give me better results. I knew I had work to do when my mother told me that I was losing weight, and I look really good "from the back." Hmmm. Mothers never lie do they? Her comment just motivated me to get busy. I also plan to begin taking some classes at the gym. But I can’t believe how hard it is to actually get away from the house (and from the kids) even for an hour. Hopefully I'll be able to make it happen. I need to make it happen. It's funny…weight was an issue with Tyler -- but it really wasn’t that big of a challenge for me…mainly because he was my first child and I was a few years younger. What a difference a few years makes…This time around I can tell it’s not going to be as easy. Wish me luck!

As for the boys… well, they don’t care about mommy's tummy and they're doing just great. We're actually thinking about trying to potty train Tyler while I still have some time off work. Not sure if any of us are up for that yet. I potty trained my niece when she was two, but I hear boys are much more difficult to train and Tyler's just 21 months. His pediatrician says he's the right age and we could have actually started training him at 18 months. I wouldn't be surprised if he catches on because Tyler seems to be growing more independent each day. I'm sure his baby brother has something to do with that, but sometimes I have to do a double-take and ask myself, "Did he just do that?" He really has become quite the little man.

Jordan on the other hand is still doing what many babies do -- sleeping during the day and staying awake at night, unless I'm holding him. And I have to admit -- I've been giving into his nighttime demands because I need the sleep. I’m sure I'll regret holding him all night in the very near future. Despite the sleeping issues…he's doing great and it's amazing to see how much he has grown in just six weeks. I often just sit with him and hold his little hands and feet because I know they won’t stay that small for long. He's so tiny and sweet and I have fallen so much in love with him already.

What can I say -- I love my guys!

And I know you love your kids too, but when did you start potty training them. I want to hear your "potty" stories. Maybe they'll help me make up my mind. And if you've got any baby weight tips -- I’ll take them. Talk to you soon.

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Posted by: Shirley Location: Lincoln on Aug 2, 2008 at 04:16 PM
Sure is good to see you back and the boys areally two cuties.You really look great Serese

Posted by: C Location: Martell on Jul 1, 2008 at 09:07 AM
I don't know if boys or girls are easier to potty train, but my son was incredibly easy. My Mom suggested using a coffee can for pee because kids like the sound. Sure enough, it worked. The other part took a little longer, but at 18 months he was trained.

Posted by: M Location: Beatrice on Jun 28, 2008 at 09:30 AM
We tried to potty train our son when he was about 1 1/2. Everyone told me I was silly, but I was determined! I failed. He was not ready. With much frustration, I waited, and waited, and waited. We tried EVERYTHING! The week after school started (after he was 3). We worked up to the fact that this weekend the diapers are thrown away. We packed them up an took them to the neighbor baby. That Saturday morning he woke up, put big boy pants on and we had NO accidents. Just like anything kids do tey will do it when they are ready. My kids are jut 14 months apart and I was tired of diapers. He potty trained himself when he was ready! :) My daughter was 15 months. . . so yes I think boys are harder!

Posted by: Lillian Location: Holdrege on Jun 25, 2008 at 10:15 AM
I can fully understand where you are coming from, being the mother of 9, with 7 being before I was 30 and 2 in my late 30's, some of my baby weight is still there but I am healthy. I found walking was great for me. Good Luck with everything and hope to see you on the news soon.

Posted by: elaine on Jun 23, 2008 at 01:05 PM
I seemed to be able to control the baby pouch after my first 3 kids. I can't say that I got rid of it completely, but after my 4th c-section and then having to have an abdominal hysterectomy after that, my pouch, I believe is going to be a part of me. So, if you find something that works let me know. As far as potty training, each one of my kids has been different from stubborn to easy to just doesn't care. My oldest daughter was completely trained in 1 week my youngest daughter, well we have been working on it for about 4 months. She goes in spurts and at times doesn't care. The amazing thing about it is that we got the #2's mastered but we can't stay dry. My boys, well boys are boys. My youngest son refused to go at daycare because he said "I don't want you to see me wee wee". He would hold it for 9 hours until I picked him up or at least try to. My oldest son was stubborn and didn't care. Good luck!! I am sure you will have some good potty stories to tell.

Posted by: danielle on Jun 23, 2008 at 11:56 AM
Best of luck on the baby weight workouts. It takes time, but you know you're beautiful whether or not you have a tiny baby bulge.